Today, we figure out what is the first TV show or movie to do a plot involving computer dating.
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A regular plot for over a decade in TV sitcoms was a computer dating plot, where a computer makes an unlikely match, like Jack and Janet being paired with each other on an episode of Three’s Company (hence the featured image). However, reader Don S. wanted to know when this sort of plotline was first used in either a movie or a TV show. Let’s see what we can see!
Now, as soon as computers became practical things in the 1940s, they were used for computer dating, but only as a sort of gimmicky thing. For instance, one of the earliest TV appearances where computer dating was discussed was an episode of People Are Funny in 1956, where Bill Harper and Dorilla Dufresne appeared as a couple matched by UNIVAC.
However, it was not until 1964 that the first commercial computer service began in London, called the St. James Computer Dating Service. Some Harvard students launched the first American version the following year.
Okay, so that’s really where we’re looking, as when computer dating went COMMERCIAL, that’s when it really became a “thing” for TV shows (movies took longer, but in 1960, there WAS a movie involving a computer choosing the new head of the science department at a college, and it chose a former stripper-turned-scientist in Sex Kittens Go to College, a Mamie Van Doran vehicle).
First off, though, let me note that there was a 1961 episode of My Living Doll (a short-lived sitcom starring Bob Cummings as a Bob McDonald, a psychiatrist who is given control of a robot, played by a young Julie Newmar, to protect her from the government) where Bob uses Newmar’s robot brain to find the perfect date for his best friend, Peter (played by Jack Mullaney, who was obsessed with the robot, “Rhoda,” so Bob needed to find him a new date) (here is Peter and Rhoda in the episode)
That episode, dubbed “The Love Machine,” is sort like computer dating, but not REALLY, right? I think we all know what we’re thinking when we say computer dating plots, and that wasn’t until 1965’s My Three Sons episode, “Steve and the Computer,” where the engaged eldest son on the show, Mike (Tim Considine) and his fiancée, Sally (Meredith MacRae) are dismayed to see that a computer dating service didn’t pair them together.
Steve (Fred MacMurray) then has a dumb dream about machines telling everyone what to do. My Three Sons would go back to the computer dating well in Season 8.
A couple of months after the My Three Sons episode, Bob Newhart starred in a TV movie about a guy using a computer to pick out a wife.
By 1968, literally half a dozen TV shows had done computer dating plotlines.
EDITED TO ADD: My pal Neil below noted that there was an unaired Archie pilot in 1964 that used a computer to work as a dating service (here is Betty, Archie and Veronica trying to convince teens to pick a card that could then be punched out with their dating data)…
It didn’t actually AIR in 1964 (which is how I missed it), but I think you could easily argue that it should count over the My Three Sons episode. I’ll let you folks figure that out for yourself!
Thanks for the question, Don!
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I’m not sure exactly what year it was, but in the very early 60’s, there was a pilot for an Archie tv series that did an exact computer-as-date-matching plot. The pilot didn’t and so the producers move on, and their next pilot project was Bewitched.
Thanks, Neil, I was thrown by it not airing, but yep, that pilot was done in 1964! I’ll add that in there as an option.
People always comment on how new technologies (especially cell phones) kill certain types of plot points or tropes, but I’ve always been more interested in what new kinds of plots can now only happen thanks to these technologies.
I was going to note the computer-dating plotline on “I Dream of Jeannie,” but it was relatively late (1969) AND it wasn’t particularly computer-y (the woman who ran the place realized Jeannie was looking for a date for an astronaut, so she set herself up on the date with Major Healey instead).
I caught a little bit of a “Benson” the other night (“Human Element”) in which the very 1980s robot could interact with humans, cook and even write on at least a ChatGPT level, and I watch way too much “Three’s Company,” so my two suggestions for this feature are:
— First TV or movie in a contemporary setting to have an authentic, believable real-world robot (so nothing set in the future, and nothing like that “Benson” episode that we could look at 40 years later and say “Robots STILL can’t do all that”).
— First TV or movie to do the “ATM spits out way way too much money” plot. (I know “Three’s Company” did it.)
The instant that I saw the banner to this entry, I thought of the My Three Sons episode, “Steve and the Computer”, so I was gratified to see it as your selection.
Aye, the dream sequence in the episode is over the top, but it’s still one of my (and the Good Mrs. Benson’s) favourite episodes of the series.
For those who came in late, the thrust of the episode occurs when, on a lark, eldest Douglas son, Mike, and his fiancée, Sally, submit completed questionnaires to a dating-service computer. They expect that the computer will find them a perfect match. However, as Mr. Cronin indicated, the computer finds them unsuitable for each other, and they are dismayed.
On a hope that the computer is unreliable, Mike asks his father to fill out a questionnaire for himself and another with the answers his late wife (Mike’s mother) would have entered. Those answers are fed into the machine, and it reports that Steve and his wife were an almost perfect match.
This dejects Mike to the point in which he is ready to call off the engagement—until Steve calls him up to the attic and shows him a letter that Louise had sent to Steve during their engagement. I won’t reveal the result, but the upshot is that there are things about the human condition that a computer cannot assess or attribute.
It’s notable, as this is one of the rare episodes that involves Steve’s late wife.
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The unaired Archie pilot really does feel like it should count, since the concept was fully formed even if it never made it to air. Funny how quickly these plots became a sitcom staple once computers went commercial. I was actually messing with an ai flyer generator last week and had a similar “we’ve come so far” moment.
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The UNIVAC matchup on People Are Funny in 1956 is a wild detail, since it means the computer dating joke was around before most people had any real idea what a commercial dating service even was. I wonder how the show framed it, whether it was played as a novelty or as a serious glimpse of the future. Either way, it’s funny that a machine the size of a room was pitched as a matchmaker.
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This is such a fun and fascinating dive into pop culture history! I love how you track down these “firsts,” and the computer dating plotline is a perfect example of something so common we rarely stop to think about its origins. The mention of *People Are Funny* in 1956 is truly mind-blowing – who knew computer dating discussions were happening on TV that early? It’s really cool to see how these seemingly modern concepts have such deep roots. Keep up the excellent work unearthing these gems, it’s always a pleasure to read! I bet finding an original movie poster from that era would make for a great block poster gratis!
This is such a fascinating deep dive into pop culture history! I always assumed computer dating plots were a much more recent phenomenon in TV and movies, so finding out it goes all the way back to the 50s with UNIVAC is truly surprising. It’s great to see how you spotlight these “When We First Met” moments. I’m really looking forward to June for more of these insights. It makes me wonder about other early tech integrations in media; it’s a great way to put things into perspective, like converting feet to square feet to understand scale. Thanks for sharing this piece of trivia!
This is such a fascinating deep dive into pop culture history! I always assumed computer dating plots were a later invention, so learning about its origins with UNIVAC in the 50s and the commercial service in 1964 is genuinely surprising. It’s amazing how these seemingly modern concepts have roots so far back. I love these “When We First Met” pieces – they always shed light on those little details that shaped the shows and movies we grew up with. It makes me wonder what other everyday concepts had such early on-screen appearances! Definitely a great read, and makes you appreciate how far technology has come, from matching couples to tools like an image to outline converter today.
This is such a fun and fascinating deep dive into pop culture history! I’ve always wondered about the origins of the “computer dating” trope in TV and movies, especially since it became such a staple. It’s really cool to learn that the concept predates the commercial services, even going back to gimmicky uses in the 50s. I love the “When We First Met” series – it’s brilliant how you spotlight these iconic firsts, from Fonzie’s jukebox magic to the surprising early appearances of computer matching. Speaking of cool tech, it makes me think about how much things have evolved, even to the point where you can use tools like ai cartoon to create unique images. I’m definitely looking forward to “When We First Met Month”!
This is such a fascinating deep dive into pop culture history! I always assumed computer dating plots were a more recent phenomenon, so it’s genuinely surprising to learn about its origins stretching back to the 1950s, even if it was just a gimmick then. The “When We First Met” series sounds like a fantastic concept, and I’m really looking forward to June being “When We First Met Month.” It makes me wonder about other everyday things we take for granted and when they first appeared in media. Finding out what inspired the Three’s Company storyline is a great hook! It’s always fun to uncover the roots of cultural touchstones, and this article does a brilliant job of it. You know, thinking about things like first appearances, it reminds me of how creative people are, whether it’s early computer dating or even using a Coloring Page Generator to spark new ideas.
This was such a fun dive into pop culture history! I’ve always loved those “When We First Met” segments, and this one about computer dating plots is particularly interesting. It’s wild to think how common that storyline became, yet it took a while for it to genuinely land in TV and film after its early gimmicky appearances. It really makes you appreciate how many concepts we now take for granted had such distinct origins. Thanks for shedding light on reader Don S.’s great question – it’s fascinating to trace these trends. It makes me wonder what other everyday concepts had similar evolutions, perhaps even things like how we transform images into different formats, similar to how an Image to Pixel tool might work today. Looking forward to more “When We First Met Month” content!
This is such a fun and engaging dive into pop culture history! I’ve always wondered about the origins of the “computer dating” trope in TV shows and movies, especially since it became such a staple in sitcoms. It’s fascinating to learn that the concept was around even before commercial services started, and that UNIVAC was involved as early as 1956. The “When We First Met” series sounds like a brilliant idea, and I’m really looking forward to June. It makes me think about how much technology has evolved and influenced our storytelling, even to the point where an Nano Banana 2.1 AI Image Generator can now create visuals based on our descriptions! Great article!
This was such a fun read! I always enjoy these deep dives into pop culture “firsts.” It’s fascinating how a concept like computer dating, which felt so modern in sitcoms for years, actually has roots stretching back to the 40s. The detail about *People Are Funny* in 1956 is a real gem – imagining UNIVAC as a matchmaker is pretty wild! It really highlights how these seemingly simple plotlines have such a rich history behind them. It makes me wonder about other overlooked firsts, similar to how something like a simple Image Splitter can be incredibly useful but its origins might not be widely known. Great post!
This is such a fun and engaging dive into pop culture history! I love the “When We First Met” series – it’s always fascinating to trace the origins of tropes we now take for granted. The computer dating plotline is definitely one that feels timeless, so it’s cool to learn about its earliest appearances. Discovering that UNIVAC was involved in a 1956 TV appearance for this kind of matchmaking is a fantastic tidbit. It really highlights how technology has always inspired unique storytelling. Thanks for sharing these insights; I’m already looking forward to next month’s discoveries! And hey, for anyone who enjoys putting disparate things together, you might appreciate how easy it is to Combine Image files for creative projects, much like this article combines history and TV!
The unaired Archie pilot is fascinating—1964 feels so early for that concept to already be in development. It’s wild how we’ve gone from punch cards to AI; I recently saw people using first time in a fancy cafe to generate videos from photos without any prompts, which makes those old UNIVAC segments feel like ancient history.